so i watched these two videos. The first one was called "killing us softly" Jean Kilbourne explains that advertising creates this sense of dehuminzation and struggle in a woman's life, it creates this ideal picture that is impossible to obtain. advertisement is used to sell products but it influences out morals, values, and taught process, if we know it or not...its a scheme called target advertising their talking about you, or a person you believe is in your same situation and you start to believe what the add is saying...kilbourne explains this is seen in young teenage/adult woman who continue to try and meet this perfect look because add's are saying or portraying them as to fat, breast to little, but to small, etc...the part that stuck out to me was when she explained that advertisement create this idea of passivity and turn woman into objects. she shows examples of woman being labeled as alcohol bottles, and then she shows a variety of add's with woman and their hands on their mouth and covered up faces with words that portrayed them as just another thing, as gold diggers, one add with an African american woman said she should be "Barely their"...and these things go to show that woman are socialized in a different way threw forms of pop culture and media and it disproves some theory's that talk about were socialized at a young age because this is a process witch goes on forever.
now kilbourne also says their are some stereotypes that effect men but it doesn't attack their body like it does woman...in my mind this creates the ideas of feminine and masculine in society and create theses ideas into norms...tony porter explains in a ted talk session what his experience of being socialized as a man was and how he experienced it threw his "man box" he explains how society creates this idea around men as being superior, but also violent, and demanding...that men should see woman as property and not a person he explains a situation when he was a child and lied about having sex with a female because his man card was in jeopardy he understood and felt bad for what he had just done but it stirred thoughts in his mind about society and how its formulated from a mans perspective...he says we should reconceptualize what it is to be a man the way we act and also raise our children to stop things like men violence against woman witch he says is at epidemic all times high...one thing that stood out that he said was "my liberation as a man is tied to your liberation as a woman" and that is a proper form of socialization in my eyes... <(^^)>...(...)